When Self-Care Means Seeing a Counselor

When Self-Care Means Seeing a Counselor

From Chris Maxwell’s book Pause for Moms.  A mother “graded” her family at the end of each day. On the refrigerator she would place letter grades each night for each child—all based on performance of duties and responsibilities and assignments. And also a grade for...
The Spiritual Discipline of Self-Care

The Spiritual Discipline of Self-Care

This week’s spiritual discipline is self-care. Some people dislike that word and assume it is selfishness. Actually, it is realizing we are people made in the image of God and we should treat ourselves like we really believe that. Today’s blog is from my book Pause...
Spiritual Friendships by Clarke Sowell

Spiritual Friendships by Clarke Sowell

(This week’s emphasis is compassion. But today’s blog takes us back to last week when we focused on spiritual friendships. Think about how the two disciplines fit together. How can better friendships and more compassion help us become people who make a positive...
More Thoughts on Spiritual Friendships

More Thoughts on Spiritual Friendships

Healthy aloneness offers internal security that can propel us to pursue life together. Solitude can prepare us for community. Community can balance the wonder of solitude. While serving as a lead pastor, I also experienced the honor of meeting regularly with my...